ask a gay dude anything

*Stealth* wrote: Alright, srsly..What's an impressive size to you?

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I actually have a great many gay friends (male and female). I think they've gravitated to me partly because I'm the only Christian Republican they've met who doesn't try to convert them in either category... (Though I do know several gay Christians as well.)

My only issue (and I've only really seen this with gay men) is how many of them are overly open with their sex lives... Like lurid details and such... And how willing SOME of them are to jump into the sack with other people. I really think they're doing themselves a disservice by not taking intimate relationships more seriously than that. But then, I often feel that way about hetero men who are "just trying to get laid" also.

You've got to find your own way. I'll be totally honest in saying that I'm not certain you're on the right path, but I also won't judge you for disagreeing with me... I think I stopped being arrogant enough to believe I know what's best for other people around 12 years ago.

bjelder33 wrote: *Stealth* wrote: Alright, srsly..What's an impressive size to you? 404 funny not found

I was not trying to be funny, I was actually interested.


but w/e.

what do you think of the whole gays in the military thing and how they cant be open?

i filled out a form today (as did everyone else) just a checked a box thing really, but it was saying that i understood that if i in anyway say or suggest that im going to say/do anything homosexual, that i would be dropped from rotc and the army.

there was some other discrimination thing i had to check to, i forget what that was about though, maybe im thinking of the privacy act thing

though i am against homosexuality and gay marriage, i do believe gays should be treated as equals. The ones that are to open with their sexuality and lifestyle are annoying and i can understand why they give some gays a "bad name." I know one gay that goes to my school, (small school of 170) and hes probably the nicest person ive ever meet.

now a question. Why do you think you were born with your sexuality? For me i dont think its possible, i think its a desicion or choise in ones life to choose what their sexuality is. So what are you thoughts on that?

What are your thoughts about lesbians? 

Razgriz Ghost wrote: How can you not like tits? A bigger concern of mine is this, why couldn't a lesbian and a gay guy hook up?

Too busy discussing interior design.

so about the tits thing?

dumb spam blocker made me double post...


Edited by Ghost-Rider - 19 July 2007 at 1:25pm

bjelder33 wrote: Without sounding rude, you cant really know what path I'm on.

That would be precisely why it's not appropriate for me to take an authoritative stance on your business... I only see from the eyes of one man and all that I "know" is admittedly colored by perspective and worldview.

From my perspective and from my life experience, it seems to me that gay people probably do choose (whether consciously or not is another question) to be gay. I think pretty much everyone, on one level or another, chooses their path on every level. I know, for myself, I've actively chosen pretty much every path I've ever followed.

But HERE's the kicker... And this is the most important thing I've said so far... Since we're not talking about me, it really doesn't matter what I think or what MY life experiences tell ME about ME. We're talking about YOU and I haven't spent a solitary moment living your life or walking in your shoes. So, while I reserve the right to suspect you've chosen more than you realize you've chosen, that point is entirely immaterial.

To answer to one comment you made... I am 32 years old, but life has aged me far beyond my years. I've been a United States Marine and have taken actions that cost people, both enemy and ally, their lives. I've been a SWAT-trained Officer with the Warrant Service Division for the State of Arkansas in affiliation with the Little Rock Police Department, a position that almost cost me my life as I became the first Arkansas Warrant Service Officer in the history of the department to be shot in the line of duty. One of my brothers shot himself in front of me, in my house, on June 6th, 2003. My wife (27 at the time) was diagnosed with Stage 3 (just shy of needing dialysis) kidney failure last year. The list goes on, but suffice to say I've got more than 32 years of stress on my shoulders.

Some people use life experience as an excuse to delude themselves into thinking they've seen enough to know what they're talking about. For my observation, the wise learn through experience that they've seen enough to realize how little they will ever truly know for certain... And how limited their view on the world is, seeing from the perspective of one in 6+ billion people on this dying earth.

So... The ONE thing I insist from people is respect for others. It's the one truth I hold to be immutable.

(I'll shut up now.)