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Cedric 
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IJM isn't gay.
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PaintballkidEPS
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Not sure if asked yet. But..how did you know you were gay?
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Hitman
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Catcher or pitcher?
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PaintballkidEPS
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Deffinately not forum appropriate. |
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WGP guy2
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If you were a girl, would you be strait or a lesbian?
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roger clemens Edited by bjelder33 - 21 July 2007 at 1:11pm |
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bjelder33
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 yeaaaaa
uhh..because i'm attracted to men? just a hunch
i'm not a girl. so i can't say... |
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Razgriz Ghost
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New question don't care about bumpage This weekend a friend and I were talking about how his friend, not partner, determined he was gay, after he had been married and had three kids. Now the question is, if you got that involved in a relationship with a women, and then you determined you were gay after you got married, had kids etc. would you stay with them or leave? I found it extremely selfish of the guy, but my friend said that in reality it wasn't so selfish, what if the guy had cheated on his wife instead of telling her and ending the realtionship mutually. I couldn't see this and wanted to know what you would do. |
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Jack Carver
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Seems to me like after 3 kids the guy pretty much has a responsibility to be a father to them, but I guess in todays world that doesn't count for much.
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Susan Storm
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How is that any different from leaving his wife for another woman?
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"No society can surely be flourishing and happy, of which the far greater part of the members are poor and miserable."
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WGP guy2
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He didn't say it was. |
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Only way I could see it being different is in the way that it would really be more respectful to his wife than if he was just leaving her for another woman, in the sense that it is like "I'm sorry but I realized that I'm just not this way" as opposed to "well I do like women... just not you". I would rather someone I loved be with a person they knew they needed to be with. Or so I'd reckon. |
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Razgriz Ghost
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I also didn't say that he left his wife for another man. He left his wife becuase he had homosexual feelings, not becuase he was with anybody at the time. That to me is pretty selfish, especially when he left at a really bad time for his wife, she lost her father near then. |
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In my opinion, he didnt just wake up one day and say "hey, I think I'm gay". If all the research on this is correct, he was pressured into being 'straight' by society. He figured he could pull it off, then realized just how miserable he was trying to pretend he loved his wife. He finally had enough and decided to be himself. Thats just IMO. |
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Razgriz Ghost
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And I kind of agree with that and yet at the same time, if you went through all of the trouble to pretend being straight, I don't know maybe ease her into it, and stay with her until the kids move on?
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Susan Storm
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And do you think that same standard should also apply to straight men/women leaving their long-time spouses? |
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Razgriz Ghost
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Of course, when did I say otherwise? I'm just asking what he would do in said situation, stick it out or leave. A lot of couples stick it out until it's best, a lot don't but many do. If you acted straight long enough to have three kids, then you can act it a bit longer until a more suitable time, same thing with deciding you don't want to be with someone anymore. |
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Roll Tide
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Posted: 23 July 2007 at 9:21pm |
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Agreed. |
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Why would you be micerable with someone reguardless of sexual orientation. My parents are divorced and civil to each other. I am much happier that they dicorced when i was a kid than to drag out a dead mariage for the sake of "the kids".
Every dude I know that "there for the kids" either cheats on his spouce and or get's trashed because he cant stand her and slaps her arround. Neither a healthy place for any kid to grow up. There isnt nothing more Selfish than i can see than to rob "the kids" of years of happiness because you and your spouce hate each other's guts. And its always just bellow the surface. |
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Razgriz Ghost
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E.E I while I stated that he should've stayed until the kids moved on I wasn't thinking the situation over right, what I meant to say and what I did say but got kicked under the rug in light of the kids comment was why didn't he wait until the wife moved on after the death of her father, why didn't he break it to her slowly, help her get on her own two feet, and make things alright for his would-be family before ending the relationship? |
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