Prom

procarbinefreak wrote: *Stealth* wrote: procarbinefreak wrote: wear pink... like i did Interesting Note... I am wearing Pink this year. Pictures to come later. but you see stealth... the difference between me and you is that I looked good in a pink tux...

I have yet to be in a pink tux, So... At least hold your whitty retort until I actualy post a picture, Then... you can feel free to use as many MiB comments as you like.

Just do it correctly, That's all I ask.

Gatyr wrote: mbro wrote: sporx wrote: he's not like that. If he was, then it would have happend a long time ago. He's my "male-friend" that I always talk about. He has a lot of respect. so I don't know what's gonna happend. But I also know what will not happen and that is to have sex on prom night. male friend you always talk to? In high school? Got bad news for you sporx, this guy is actually in love with you. Ahhhh, high school. I'd have to agree, and I can promise he has thought about it.

he's told me that he's ahad a few dreams about me and I told him that I
have had some dreams about him like that too, cuz well...I did.

Anyways, I'm really confused about where we stand. Ok get this. -->
For my birthday (Dec. 10) he went out to dinner with me and my family
then he took me to a movie. (that was our first date together)

He asked me to spend Christmas with him so his family can meet me and
everything. So I went and he gave me a diamond/silver necklace. I felt
guilty cuz I didn't get him anything. He said that I have been such a good
friend to him, that he wanted to get me something nice. Then we spent
the night together watching "A Beautiful Mind" on his bed.

We went on some dates and blah blah blah.

For Valentine's Day, he sent me a dozen roses, a box of chocolate
covered strawberries, and a card that said how much I was important to
him and such. I cried over the card.

then more dates. I mean we talk on the phone everyday and we talk about
everything. We've even had a freakin' 10 hour phone conversation
straight!!!! He tells me that he trusts me more than everyone else he that
he knows, he tells me that I'm perfect in so many ways, he points out
little things that I do to make he "giggle" and idk. He asked me to prom
back in Feb. I'm confused cuz we act as if were together, but he calls us
"friends." even on our little dates, he has never pulled a move on me. I
mean no hand holding (3rd grade I know), no arm arond each other, no
cuddling, nothing. But we do give hugs...but I give everyone hugs. I'm
confused on where we stand. What do you guys think? I need some guy
opinions.

^I mean I want to be with him. I just want him to pull the move, meaning
that he's ready for the next step and such. I don't know if he's afraid to
ruin the "friendship"

Him not admitting you are dating or calling you his girlfriend is his way of preserving the relationship and not scaring you off in case you dont feel the same way. Its beyond obvious he likes you, but he isnt willing to gamble your friendship for something more because he is afraid to lose what he has.

holysmartone wrote: Make little hints at it though. But when I say little hints, make it really obvious to him. Us guys dont often get all the signals you girls send us. Make them obvious.

Exactly. And in his case, you may need to be more than obvious about what you want.

holysmartone wrote: Make little hints at it though. But when I say little hints, make it really obvious to him. Us guys dont often get all the signals you girls send us. Make them obvious.

maybe he is shy?  Usually the girls ask me out, i dont usually get the hints

sporx wrote: ^I mean I want to be with him. I just want him to pull the move, meaning that he's ready for the next step and such. I don't know if he's afraid to ruin the "friendship"

He's obviously to scared to. If you want it, do it. Make a move on him. Quit being a little wussy girl.

sporx wrote: ^I laughed on that one. I'm not really being a "wussy" I just, idk. Well thanx for some advice. I think I'm just gonna wait for next weekend and see what happends. I mean I don't want to say something now and then have our prom night together feel all weird. And if nothing happends on prom (no moves or anything) then I am taking charge.

Say something? Just make a move on. I say do it before prom to, don't want the boodbye to be awkward. Just make a move on him, save the talking for after.

sporx wrote: ^ya that's what I was trying to say. Pull some moves, and leave all the talking for a later time, so we can have a fun night together.

my little girl is growing up

Either he's a not sure about his own sexuality, or he wants to plough you.

Don't get me wrong- he sounds like on of the classic 'nice guys' who gets along perfectly - and fruitlessly - with most of the attractive girls he know; I'm one of those myself. But that doesn't mean he doesn't want to plough you- he's just too much of a gentleman to talk about it or to make a move, plus he's probably a little bit chicken at heart. Again, I'm speaking from experience here.

Jump his bones, Sporx. You'll make his day and boost his self confidence immesurably. Wreck him.

You know you want to.

plough (verb) = bump uglies, do the nasty, intercourse, sex, jump his bones, hump, ride, bang, {four letter word}, nail, pound, ect, ect....

immeasurably: cant be measured, alot.